What is Emotional Intelligence?

Emotional Intelligence is the ability to use our emotions in a positive way.  Think of emotions as energy.  Like a powerful stream, the energy will go somewhere.  Dam up the stream with no outlet, and the water will back up. One day the dam may burst, releasing a powerful flood. Alternatively, the water might find a way to go around the dam.

Applied to emotions, pent up emotions may explode verbally or even violently.  Repressed emotions may be a factor in depression or illness.  Frustration at work may be misdirected toward your mate.

The Emotional Intelligence test will enable you to become aware of your emotions, to label your emotions, and to direct the energy rationally.

How do I know this will be good for me?

Do you constantly have problems maintaining relationships? Do you have trouble motivating yourself?  Do you fail to reach your goals/dreams?  Do you make the same mistakes repeatedly? A lack of emotional intelligence results in self-defeating behavior.

How does it work?

After reading our Privacy Statement (we do not share your information) and Limits to Confidentiality Statement (laws require that we report certain situations, such as child abuse), and agreeing to accept these, you will register by email.  Only when your registration is accepted will you be directed to complete your registration by paying for the resource.

After your donation is received, you will then be sent an Emotional Intelligence test to take online.  Within a week, you will receive an email containing your first feedback slip from the test and a note with additional information.

You will receive six feedback slips and responses over a six-week period.

You are encouraged to read the feedback slip and suggestions each day, thus becoming aware as you go about your daily activities.  This method allows you to catch yourself acting or thinking in ways revealed by the test. Once we are aware, we are free to change.

You are also encouraged to write me an email at least once a week reporting on your experience. Writing forces you think, puts your experience into words, and allows you to benefit fully.

You may write more than one email to me each week, but I will lump them all together in a response and at the same time will send you the next feedback slip. Once you receive the feedback slip, we repeat the process of becoming aware, putting insights into words, and receiving a response along with the next feedback slip.

What exactly will the feedback slips cover?

Slip 1 will be an introduction explaining Emotional Intelligence, your overall score, your behavioral aspect, and your knowledge aspect.

Slip 2 will give a score and explanation of your emotional insight into yourself and specific suggestions for growth.

Slip 3 will give a score and explanation of your goal orientation, motivation, and specific suggestions for growth.

Slip 4 will give a score on your ability to express your emotions and specific suggestions for growth.

Slip 5 will give your score on insight, empathy, and specific suggestions for growth.

Slip 6 will give a summary of your strengths and potential strengths.

What is the cost?

The cost for the test and the ongoing consultations over six week is $399.

How do I sign up?

Click here to go to our Privacy Statement, Confidentiality Statement, and Registration.